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Encountering God in a Simple Invitation to Pray (Part 1)

by Fr. Robert Aliunzi  |  10/30/2026  |  Weekly Reflection

Dear friends,

Sometimes, the most profound encounters with God begin with the simplest invitations.

One of the most uplifting moments of my day at Our Lady of Mount Carmel is our staff gathering at noon to pray the Angelus together. Amid the many responsibilities, meetings, phone calls, and demands of parish life, this brief pause invites us to turn our hearts toward God, remember the mystery of the Incarnation, and entrust our lives and concerns to the loving care of our Blessed Mother.

We usually begin by sharing personal intentions for which we would like the group to pray. It is a simple but meaningful practice that reminds us that, beyond our individual responsibilities, we are a community of faith, called to support one another through prayer.

Recently, one of these ordinary moments became an extraordinary encounter with grace.

As we gathered for our midday prayers, we found our ever-amiable front desk coordinator, Monica, attending to an elderly lady who had come to the parish seeking assistance. Seated on a couch nearby was a younger woman, whom I presumed to be her daughter. She appeared deeply distressed, carrying a burden that was visible even in her silence.

Looking at them, I felt moved to extend a simple invitation: "Would you like to join us for prayer?" They readily accepted.

We proceeded with our usual routine, sharing our intentions before beginning the Angelus. When it was the elderly lady's turn, she spoke words that have remained with me. With visible emotion, she said, "My prayer intention is gratitude for coming here and having the opportunity to pray."

Here was a woman who had come to the parish seeking help, apparently carrying the weight of difficult circumstances. Yet, when given the opportunity to express what was in her heart, her first response was not a request for material assistance, an explanation of her troubles, or even a plea for an immediate solution. It was gratitude. She was grateful simply to be there, to be welcomed, and to have the opportunity to pray.

She then briefly shared her situation with us. Although I cannot share her personal story, her words and attitude left a lasting impression on me. In that moment, I was reminded that sometimes those who come to us seeking help have something important to teach us about faith.

How often do I approach God with a long list of needs, concerns, and requests, forgetting to thank Him simply for the gift of His presence? How often do I become so preoccupied with solving problems that I overlook the grace already at work in the people and circumstances around me?

There is nothing wrong with bringing our needs to God. Indeed, Jesus invites us to ask, to seek, and to knock. But there is something beautiful about a faith that can still say "Thank you, Lord," even before the problem has been resolved.

Such gratitude does not mean that suffering is unimportant or that our difficulties should be ignored. Rather, it reflects a deeper trust that God remains present with us, even when the road ahead is uncertain. Gratitude is not the denial of suffering; it is the recognition that suffering does not have the final word.

Saint Paul reminds us in his First Letter to the Thessalonians, "In all circumstances give thanks, for this is the will of God for you in Christ Jesus" (1 Thessalonians 5:18). The elderly lady seemed to embody this spirit. Her circumstances had brought her to our parish in search of help, but her heart was open enough to recognize another gift: the opportunity to pray.

This experience also reminded me of the kind of parish we are called to be at Our Lady of Mount Carmel.

Our mission is not simply to maintain buildings, organize programs, celebrate liturgies, or provide services. All these things are important, but at the heart of our mission is the desire to help everyone who walks through our doors encounter the living God and find a path toward Him.

Sometimes, that encounter begins with something as simple as a warm welcome. Sometimes, it begins when someone at the front desk takes the time to listen. Sometimes, it happens when we notice a person who looks troubled and offer a moment of prayer instead of allowing the demands of our schedules to carry us past them.

Monica was doing what our parish staff strives to do each day: welcoming someone who had come seeking help. And in that ordinary setting, a simple invitation opened the door to a moment of shared prayer, mutual encouragement, and spiritual renewal.

The elderly woman and her presumed daughter were not merely people who had come to receive assistance. They were fellow members of the human family, beloved by God, carrying their own stories, struggles, hopes, and gifts. Their presence enriched our prayer, and their faith became a blessing to us.

That is the beauty of Christian community. We come together not because we have everything figured out, but because we need God and one another. We bring our burdens, but we also bring our faith. We offer help, but we remain humble enough to receive the blessings God sends through those we serve.

I love You!

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